While there were many things I knew I would kind of have to figure out as I went along, I knew one thing for sure...having a nighttime ritual was very important. I started it immediately by keeping the lights and activity level low starting around 6:30 in the evening. The evening begins with a bath. At first it was awkward to support this tiny, slippery little guy in a blue bath on the bathroom counter. After a couple of tries we both got the hang of it and bath time is now something I think we both look forward to. A dip in the sink to rinse off the extra soap and then a warm towel wrap. A bit of lotion and a quick leg and arm massage and then it's into a clean diaper and pajamas. Next we are rocking quietly, watching tv in the living room, or listening to quiet music in Elliott's room. This last feeding before bedtime is my favorite. He looks up at me and listens intently as I quietly relay the events of the day. His eyes wide as he tries to stay awake for just a little longer. Eventually his breathing becomes heavier. His eyes are tightly shut and I watch him sleep in my arms. Another day has gone by and we've settled in for another night together.
Good night. Sweet dreams. I love you Elliott.
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